A calculator for your love life.
A 24-piece puzzle that maps your dating patterns, attachment style, and intimacy pace — then coaches you from where you actually are. Minds before faces.
What's inside
Three systems working together. You pick the one that fits where you are.
24 Puzzle Pieces
A collaborative calculator that maps your attachment style, dating patterns, and intimacy pace. Not a swipe deck — a self-knowledge engine.
AI Coaching (Plus)
Unlimited relationship coaching, message crafting, and personalised date ideas — all grounded in the patterns the puzzle reveals about you.
The Intimacy Code (Pro)
The 5 Phases of intimacy and the 7 Conversations that change everything. A private framework shared among a small circle of women since 2015.
Companion
The book that built the app
New Love Life by Valentina — what a hidden course about male psychology taught her after dating in 5 countries. The 5 Phases of intimacy. The 7 Conversations. The 4 Dating Disasters.
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